EXPLORE THE FEELING OF BEING SEEN.

SEX IS HARD TO TALK ABOUT.

BUT IT DOESN’T HAVE TO BE.

With many cultural, social and religious beliefs that complicate our feelings about sex, it's no wonder so many of us feel overlooked and unseen in our intimate relationships.

THE TRUTH IS THOUGH, Who WE are in the bedroom IS A reflectION OF all OF our past experiences—good AND bad.

no matter how we COME TO desire OUR DEEPEST FANTASIES, IF THEY’RE safe, healthy, and consensual, we deserve FOR THEM to feel seen and heard.

heYFam, I’m Mike Johnson

I don’t claim to be one of America’s most eligible bachelors, but I did play one on TV.

Most people don’t know this about me, but…

I’m also a Board certified sexologist AND THE FOUNDER OF this platform, FEELING SEEN.

After a traumatic early sexual experience, it became my mission to demystify desire, explain how pleasure can be reached (especially when it’s difficult to achieve), and make sex easier to talk about.

Since my time on TV, I’ve been invited to discuss sex, love, and relationships more times than I can count. Here’s what I’ve learned: most people love their partners, their dynamic, and even the sex, but often, they don’t feel fully seen or heard inside their relationships, leaving the potential for greater pleasure and more powerful connections on the bedside table.

The good news is…With my simple 5-step formula to better sex, you’ll be making the pleasure you want in no time!

As seen in…

the feeling seen formula

5 steps to BETTER SEX

  • STEP ONE: DISCOVER

    The person you are in the bedroom is unlike any other version of you. Knowing your sexual will’s, won’ts and wants is the key to getting everything you desire in bed.

    DOWNLOAD OUR SELF DISCOVERY WORKSHEET

  • STEP TWO: COMMUNICATE

    How you express your sexual personality, desires, insecurities, and needs is the most important step in ensuring a safe, healthy, consensual, and pleasurable experience. If you don’t feel ready to fully express, go back to step one.

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  • STEP THREE: CONSENT

    Step three is the most important when making the pleasure you want, especially if the activity involves physical contact or penetration. Being able to say yes fully and with no discomfort is the only way to make sure everyone involved is enjoying themselves. If you don’t feel ready to consent, go back to step two.

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  • STEP FOUR: ENGAGE

    Once you’ve learned how to communicate your needs, and have received and given consent, the next step is exploration and experimentation. Here is where you can put our expert tips and techniques to work. If you don’t feel ready to engage, go back to step three.

    Worksheet coming soon!

  • STEP FIVE: REFLECT

    Sometimes things work, and sometimes they don’t. That’s why reflection and dialogue are so important to the process of feeling seen. Learn how to talk about sex after it happens.

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GET STARTED TODAY WITH OUR SELF DISCOVERY WORKSHEET

The SELF DISCOVERY WORKSHEET contains over 65 Yes/No/Maybe questions designed by our team of board certified sexologists, educators, counselors, and therapists.

step one in our feeling seen formula, this free worksheet will help jumpstart the connection, both in and out of the bedroom.

FEEL SEEN. BE HEARD.

FEEL SEEN. BE HEARD.

NO shame, no blame, no games. Just raw and raunchy advice that will ignite your curiosity, courage, and connection.

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