Condoms, condoms, condoms: exciting new ways to stay safe in the bedroom!
Have you ever heard the word condom and the word exciting used in the same sentence?
Yeah, me neither.
But, here at Feeling Seen, we love to wander into new territory, so here we go…
Let's get some condom facts out there first:
Dental Dams are a form of condom designed to be worn during oral sex, made with latex or polyurethane sheets so ensure you’re not allergic!
Condoms are a barrier method of birth control that can help prevent pregnancy and reduce transmission of sexually transmitted infections.
Condoms are only 98% effective at preventing pregnancy when used correctly.
Condoms are the only form of birth control currently on the market that can also prevent or reduce the spread of sexually transmitted infections. (See, I told you this was exciting. We love a two-for-one deal.)
Condoms are made from various materials, including latex, plastic, and lambskin. Still, only synthetic condoms (latex or plastic) reduce the chance of getting or spreading STIs.
Condoms do expire. Check those expiration dates!
Condoms are amazing, but let's not forget that some STIs still pass by skin-to-skin contact, and a condom does not cover all areas of the body you may come in contact with. Though we’d love the picture if you try.
Condoms are made for the male and female body owners - in this blog we’re focusing on male body owners and condoms.
Now for the *new and exciting part*
Most of us know that condoms are worn over the penis during penetrative intercourse, but do you know they can also be worn in other ways too? (Met Gala, anyone?)
Of course, we're talking about using condoms during oral play. Cutting a condom up the side and unrolling it (expanding its surface area) makes it work as a barrier between the mouth and vulva or the mouth and anus for stimulation or oral sex.
The fine print: Once a condom is cut or any attempts at changing its original form are made, it can no longer be used for penetrative intercourse safely, but hopefully, that goes without saying.
Condoms can enhance intimacy and build trust and communication between sexual partners.
Think about it: having a conversation that includes physical and emotional safety is a gateway to real connection.
Condoms now come in over 60 sizes! Oh yes, friends, there are tons to choose from now.
The most common complaint we hear about condoms is about fit (pinching, slipping, squeezing, or bunching that contributes to a feeling of discomfort or a reduction in pleasure), but there's no reason to sweat the fit any longer. There are now condoms on the market that fit up to 60 different sizes. No excuses now, peeps.
Rolling a condom on can be quite fun and stimulating. Getting both partners involved by dropping a little lubricant into the condom before putting it on can be really exciting. Then, pinch the tip of the condom, place it on the head of the penis, and roll it all the way down to the base. For an uncircumcised penis, gently pull the foreskin back before putting the condom on. The slower, the better for foreplay.
The condom should roll down easily. If it does not, it's most likely backward. (No problem! We've all been there. Just throw that one away and try again! Pro tip: the rolled lip should be on the outside.)
Now that we've sorted out all the safety, fun, and intimacy that condoms can bring into the bedroom, let's remember this final fact:
Condoms date back to the 1640s. They're not new. They're not scary. And there's TONS of information available about them, so there's no excuse not to use them. Even if you have a reaction to the spermicide that some condoms have, there are other options available.
Hope this helps you feel more than just seen!
Team picks for condoms:
Any condom is better than no condom!!!
